Call Me An F-U-tarian

By Chris & Angel

In this day and age there seems to be more and more emphasis put on concerns about what others may think of us.  Being vegan is especially difficult when trying to explain to the ever-nosy stranger why we don’t eat or use animal products. For this issue we’d like to address some common stereotypes and misconceptions of veganism.

To the general lay person, the term “vegan” in itself is unknown, but as soon as we say “vegetarian” the likely reply is “oh, so you don’t eat meat?” It’s almost as if “vegan” is perceived as an artsy abbreviation to make one appear “cool.” This, of course, is not the case. After some brief explanation, the uninformed questioner will either blow it all off as a fad or begin the drilling and snide remarks.

When coming across the few who know the basis behind our beliefs, there’s a whole new array of judgments and accusations. The first of many assumptions thrown our way is the preconceived notion of vegans being militant animal rights activists who force their opinions onto others. PETA also comes up often and is looked down upon as an almost terrorist-like organization. Of course, there is always a degree of truth behind a stereotype. After all, that’s what makes a stereotype in the first place. But, lest we forget, a stereotype is also made up of fabrication and unfounded falsehoods.

Speaking for ourselves, and the very few vegans we know or have met, we don’t push our beliefs onto people. We’ll answer questions and provide information when asked out of curiosity. The vast majority of our friends and family are not vegan. We accept each other. We go out to eat together. We live and work together. Life goes on as it does for each of us. It would be nice if we could save every animal and help lead others to this lifestyle, but we are realistic in understanding that we cannot change the world. By no means does this mean that we won’t try to a certain extent. We do support animal rights, but we won’t get in your face unless you want us to. And by that we mean don’t confront us with your intolerance and concern for what we don’t eat or wear. We don’t judge you for being Christian, a non-drinker, Republican or homosexual. Everyone deserves a right to be who they are and to coexist.

As vegans, we don’t necessarily fit into the general consensus. There are no straight-edge, tree-hugging, only-organic health nuts here. We listen to metal, watch horror movies, drink until we black out and eat as much vegan junk food as we possibly can. We don’t all have pasty white skin (well, maybe Chris) or eat nothing but tofu. If anything, this here couple would more likely have horns and eat your children. This alone should be a primary example of not judging one solely by their beliefs or convictions. You never really know who it is you’re meeting until you actually take the time to get to know them and understand their personal views on life.

Empathy is a trait we should all try on once in a while.

So until next time, take care and VEG OUT!